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sex up your consent

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , on May 21, 2009 by wildchild36

I always hear people talking about consent as if it is this horribly awkward experience to endure. Yes, consent can be this way. But then, all sex can be awkward, if you’re in an awkward mindset. If you have a sexy, confident minset about sex, it becomes less awkward. Same goes for consent. Try this sometime: Get two hershey’s kisses. Eat the first one normally. How did you like that? Now, close your eyes and eat the second one as sesually as possible. Really savor it. See the difference? If you treat consent as something you have to get done and over with, it won’t be much fun. But if you incorperate it into the foreplay, suddenly it’s a whole lot sexier. Consent works best when you work it into general dirty talk. Why don’t you try talking about what you’d like to do to each other? This will also give each of you a good idea of what you want out of the encounter. And what’s better than everyone getting what they want?